A statement of opinion

[miss_pryss]

It doesn't make it less icky if you let the 14-year old do all the work and stay completely passive.

It also doesn't make it less icky if you allow the 14-year old to stay completely passive while you do all the work.

People, having sex with a 14-year old is icky. If you're going to write it, embrace the ick. Don't try to apologize for it or mitigate it somehow.

Goodness.

Comments

[perfectbinding.livejournal.com]

If you're going to write it, embrace the ick. Don't try to apologize for it or mitigate it somehow.

Ha, that's exactly how I feel. I find that it's much more icky if people try to apologize for it. The most disturbing shota I ever read (aside from the first few, i.e. when I first found out what it was...but apparently you do get used to anything, or at least I do *g*) was one in which the older partner felt that he'd done something horribly wrong afterward (the younger partner kinda, er, jumped him--and by "younger" I mean closer to the 10-12 range than 14). Somehow that got to me way more than the ones who just do it. Anyway, don't know if that's exactly what you were getting at, but I found it odd.

[miss-pryss.livejournal.com]

Yeah, that's exactly what I mean. In fact, I got so indignant about it that I posted a follow-up in my LJ...